Experience was my first teacher.
Hello, my name is Paulette Deckers, and I am a Board-Certified Hypnotherapist.
I came to this work by looking long and hard at dealing with past trauma in my earlier years, mostly as a child. After years of talk therapy and other similar modalities, I tried working with a hypnotist. That decision truly changed my life.
I struggled for years to understand my behaviors and why I reacted the way I did when I felt someone had betrayed me, lied, or even when I felt let down.
Through a series of events that brought my reactions to light, I discovered how I felt and that the way I reacted to other people’s words and deeds was on me, not on them.
That is when I understood that I had the control, not the other way around. I no longer needed to feel like I was a victim of circumstance.
My happiness and well-being relied on no one else but me. What a REVELATION!
My life changed, and so can yours!
Now, I am happy to say that I understand myself, my behaviors, and my emotions more than I ever did at any other time in my life. I realized that the choices were clear. Either I allowed myself to wallow in feeling bad or upset at someone or something, or I worked to alleviate those uncomfortable emotions. Fortunately, I learned to do the latter.
Through the work I do with my clients, they receive the training and tools used to change my life.
If you are ready to face your situation head-on and feel more empowered, please reach out to me. Let’s see how we can rewrite the story that you have been telling yourself for so long.